30.3.09

problemaaaaa

30.3.09
Thanks guys for the lovely comments.

I missed this blog so much!!

The problems have just been getting worse and worse.

1. Internet is on and off. Speedy is killing me slowly.

2. Gossip Girl has been sucking lately, and 90210 just relates more to me.

3. My mom cheated on my dad. Yes I know, that is so open, and random.
I just wanted to let people that have NORMAL lives know how lucky they are.
From now on, I will be 100% honest and open on this blog.

4. The my moms lover is STILL working at my company. EVEN THOUGH MY DAD KNOWS!

Okay, how do I know right?


Evidence:

1. My dad once found an sms on her phone saying "Hello sweetie, let's meet at (a certain cafe) and sit under the palm trees today. Love, M."

2. She ruffles his hair. SHE DOESN'T DO THAT TO MY DAD!! ARGH!

3. She ALWAYS goes out with him. And NEVER with my dad.

4. When she goes out with him, she ALWAYS wants to sit shotgun. with HIM.

5. Once, I was eating lunch with the both of them at this cute cafe, and he said "Oh, I came here a few days ago with a friend". And then she said "Really? What friend??" Like, in a reaaally aggressive tone. That is so secretly dating behavior.

6. When she fought with my dad, she went to HIS house. and came home at 5 in the morning?
um hello? where would she sleep? ARRGH THIS IS KILLING ME!

7. I found ANOTHER text after she sent one saying: "M, buy me some Bakso (a type of food) at Rindu Rasa/longing flavor (A small resto)". And then he replied "Rindu Rasa atau Rindu Saya?" --> Translation: Longing flavor or longing for me?

I'm nuts right now.

8. When we went to pizza hut, they went to the bathroom. AT THE SAME TIME. And when I went to the bathroom, I saw them standing WAAAY to close to each other.

9. When me and my boyfriend was going out, we saw my car parked in front of a cafe. I called her pretending that I was at home and asked her where she was. She said she was in Kuta (so far away). SHE LIED. WHY WOULD SHE LIE?

10. She refused to fire him when I said that either he has to leave, or the family is.

I hate her. I hate him. I hate this situation.

I love my dad more than anything and anyone. Anyone who tries to hurt him, will pay.

If you guys are confused about why I love my dad and want to kill my mom, here's why.

My dad works from 6 am till 8pm every day for his family.

My mom spends his money. And pretends to work. And probably sends some cash to M every month.

That is why I'm tired, and pissed.

That is why I stopped going to school.

This is too much.

Can anyone please relate? Because I need to know whether this is normal or not.

I think I might audition for the Hills. My life is WAY more dramatic than LC's.

9 shouts:

aizamia said...

hi there =)

i'm Aizamia from Malaysia
i starts to follow ur blog since mast few months.
i just love to read ur blog.. =)

uhm.
honestly. i'm quite shocked with ur story..

i like ur dad =)
i can see from the pictures, he's a loving dad.
u r so lucky =)

uhm..take care.
all d best.
every clouds has it silver lining rite?

i'd been through hard time too in my family's life.i'd became bolder n wiser after been through the family's problem since 5 years ago.
and i know u can do it too =)

take care sweety.
lots of Love from Malaysia =)

theliciousgum said...

thank you for the comment aizamia...!

I know this post was shocking, but I just had to get his off my chest.

I'm glad that you got through your family problems well. It gives me hope for myself.

:)

And yes, my dad is the best man in my life. :)
love him to death.

unguwaty said...

I'm soo shocked while read your post
i hope you will be better now..
be a strunggle girl

Catherine Viriya said...

Im so sorry about what happened!!
aduuh, smoga cpat terselesaikan yaa masalahnyaa..
:(

theliciousgum said...

thank you unguwaty and catherine!

I really appreciate it.

things are better now. But I'm staying at my boyfriend's place to calm myself down.

kisses x

cheddah said...

i can almost relate even though my parents didnt o tru the same situation.my parents are divorced now and i live with my mom.
(i dnt aa get 2 the whole story sry)

but i feel for you! you shuldnt stop going to skool because of this. show your mom that your better than that and that your better den her. i know you will make it thru it. jus dont lose your life becuase of your mom

chekka cuomova said...

*big hug*
baby girl, be strong okay. I'm sorry about your family and I know it's so damn hard for any girls at your age (hehehe I'm pretty much older soo.. :p).. seriously, if you need to talk about that, you can write it on your blog and I'll read it and drop a comment. or maybe if you need psychological support, better thank the power of bloggers networking, because I'll help you out.
be strong baby girl! :)

Lydia Florencia said...

Be tough yaa.. Ini memang berat, banyak doa aja.. Normal sih apa yang kamu rasaiin.. tapi, jangan sampe putus asa..

EternalJade said...

Awww.
I don't think it's random that you expressed how you felt. I mean, it is your blog, and we're all here for you.

I know you're going through some difficult times, but you'll definitely pull through it. Just keep on expressing how you feel. Never bottle it up, because it'll only feel worse.

I went through a similar situation a couple of years ago, and it was really hard. My schoolwork took a nosedive, but my friends and relatives helped pull me through it.

I hope things work out fine for you.
Your dad seems really great.

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